Add olive oil, Dijon mustard, honey, lemon juice, garlic powder, onion powder, dried parsley, smoked paprika, salt and pepper to a bowl. Whisk together. Pour over chicken and marinate for 15 minutes up to 24 hours.
To make the hot honey, add the honey and chiles to a jar and use an immersion blender to puree. Set aside.
When ready to cook, preheat the grill to 400°. Cook on each side for 4 to 5 minutes with the lid closed. During the last minute of cooking, add a generous amount of shredded Gouda and close the lid to melt the cheese.
Serve on a bun with lettuce, tomato, and red onion. Drizzle with hot honey and serve.